Five questions to find out what really matters to you

1. When do you completely lose track of time?

   Question 1

   The moments when time disappears often point to what you love doing. Try this: write down the last time it happened and what you were doing.

2. Who do you want to grow old with, healthy?

   Question 2

   Names say more than principles. Try this: write down the first names that come to mind, without editing the list.

3. What would you never trade, not even for more money?

   Question 3

   What you would keep at any price is a good sign of what matters to you. Try this: name one thing and notice how quickly the answer came.

4. Which of your three is running low right now: Self, Social or Work?

   Question 4

   Self is your energy, Social the people you love, Work the work that matters. Try this: give each one a quick honest score, just for yourself.

5. What do you hope the people close to you copy from your days?

   Question 5

   People close to us notice how we live more than what we say. Try this: name one habit you'd be glad to see in them, too.

Not one pillar. All three. Self first, then the people you love, then the work that matters. Why not answer one tonight?

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