<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>ifeelfive</title><link>https://ifeelfive.com/</link><description>Self first. Then the people you love. Then the work that matters.</description><item><title>Five questions for the end of your week</title><link>https://ifeelfive.com/posts/weekly-reflection-questions.html</link><guid>https://ifeelfive.com/posts/weekly-reflection-questions.html</guid><pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2026 18:00:00 +0200</pubDate><description>A useful weekly reflection takes about ten minutes and five questions: What gave me energy this week? Who did I really listen to? What did I do only because it was loud? What will I stop next week? What am I grateful for, and did I say it? Answer them on Sunday evening, in writing.</description></item><item><title>Five things the best listeners never do</title><link>https://ifeelfive.com/posts/how-to-be-a-better-listener.html</link><guid>https://ifeelfive.com/posts/how-to-be-a-better-listener.html</guid><pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2026 18:00:00 +0200</pubDate><description>Good listeners are defined less by what they do than by what they hold back. They don&#x27;t rehearse their answer while you talk, don&#x27;t jump to advice, don&#x27;t finish your sentences, don&#x27;t make the story about themselves and don&#x27;t rush to fill a silence. That restraint is what makes people feel heard.</description></item><item><title>Five things I stopped doing and got my energy back</title><link>https://ifeelfive.com/posts/how-to-get-your-energy-back.html</link><guid>https://ifeelfive.com/posts/how-to-get-your-energy-back.html</guid><pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2026 18:00:00 +0200</pubDate><description>The fastest way to get your energy back is usually to stop something, not to add something. Five habits cost me the most: checking my phone right after waking up, scrolling in bed, meetings without a clear purpose, arguing with strangers online, and treating rest as a reward instead of a requirement.</description></item></channel></rss>
